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21 Chilled Out Ideas for Bachelorette Parties

With epic spas, gorgeous getaway hotels and a huge emphasis on wellness in our modern-day culture, chilled-out bachelorette parties have become a huge hit for the soon-to-be-married set. Even when the plans include a full-blown last fling before the ring, everyone needs a quiet moment to reset. These spots are sure to quickly become your favorite way to spend a long weekend away with the girls, or simply share a few hours together locally. And whatever your bachelorette style, there’s always space for a spa treatment or two.
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Her Majesty's Pleasure

Toronto, Canada
Toronto’s hottest salon/spa and cocktail bar will look mighty fine with your girls in a row sipping on bubbles and getting their nails and hair did. Group packages at Her Majesty’s Pleasure are available for both bachelorette and bridal party crews.
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New York, New York
NYC gals looking for a low-key bachelorette party day can kick off the festivities at Chillhouse on Essex. Part nail salon, part day spa and part café, this boutique salon is perfect when you’re rolling with a crew.
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Coqui Coqui Coba

Quintana Roo, Mexico
This stunning Coqui Coqui spa alone is worthy of a trek to Coba with your girls in tow. Whether you opt for a massage, reflexology, Mayan facial treatment, botanical bath, or Mayan ritual, you’re sure to leave feeling completely relaxed and recharged.
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Dunton Hot Springs learn more

Chill out and reconnect with nature and your girls at Dunton Hot Springs. This Colorado destination has luxury log cabins galore and a ton of indoor and outdoor hot bathing options.
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Le Labo Fragrances

Houston, Texas
Houston’s Le Labo in Hyde Park is a stunning backdrop for you and the ladies to spend an afternoon tinkering with customised perfumes and learning all about fragrance. Create your own wedding night scent that reminds you of a weekend well-spent with your bests.
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Hello Birdie Nail & Lash Lab

San Diego, California
Hello Birdie is a great one-stop shop for a lashes and nails get together with your bachelorette party gals. Located in San Deigo’s North Park, the nail and lash lab is a treat for starting off the weekend on a pampered note.
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The Spa Kitchen

Barcelona, Spain
Manis, pedis, facials, massages, waxes, eyebrows and lashes are all on The Spa Kitchen menu in Barcelona. Get your girl gang together and opt for a special banquette package with wines and pampering to get your bachelorette party started.
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Los Angeles, California
With locations in Santa Monica, Silver Lake, West Hollywood and Studio City, you’re sure to find a convenient location of The NOW if you’re planning a bachelorette gathering in LA. These gorgeous massage therapy studios offer everything from crystal soaks to heat therapy and deep tissue massage.
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Hotel Escencia learn more

Located about halfway between Cancun and Tulum, Hotel Esencia is one of the most gorgeous hotels along the Riviera Maya. If you’re planning a destination bachelorette party and want to be immersed in the tropics and experience the healing powers of the Mayan culture, this is your ultimate spa resort getaway.
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New York, New York
At NYC’s Heyday, it’s all about the face. For your crew of chilled-out bachelorette ladies, you might opt for a handful of facials or let your lovelies choose from microdermabrasion, peels or light therapy.
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International Orange

Larkspur, California
Spend a morning or afternoon at the Marin Country Mart just outside SF checking out the shops and eateries, finishing off the experience with a slew of appointments at International Orange. With a focus on skin, body and acupuncture, services include enzyme boosts, head and neck massage, facial peels and more.
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The Standard Spa

Miami, Florida
After a few days of partying in Miami, this recovery center, hydrotherapy playground and new-age ashram is sure to be calling your name. Just to point out a couple of the perks, the spa at The Standard Miami Beach has a true Turkish-style hamam, a mud lounge and a waterfall hot tub. It’s also a hotspot for yoga retreats and wellness workshops in 2018.
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Mammoth Hot Springs

Mammoth Lakes, California
Surprise your bridechilla with a trek out to the Mammoth Hot Springs. These natural hot springs sit on a hill of cascading travertine in the Eastern Sierras in California.
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New York, New York
New York’s JINsoon spa has multiple locations throughout the city, including a Tribeca flagship store that’s known as much for its gorgeous designer space as for its fabulous treatment offerings. Head here to kick off a bachelorette weekend with the girls and you’ll all be feeling like your best and most pampered selves in no time at all.
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Onsen Bath & Restaurant

San Francisco, California
If a spa day in SF is on your bachelorette gathering radar, check out Onsen for its spa services, bathhouse and private dining space. The Japanese style bathhouse takes a group spa session to the next level.
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Saxon Spa

Johannesburg, South Africa
Johannesburg’s Saxon Hotel offers eight treatment rooms in a space that feels at once glamorous and effortless. Bring the girls along for this experience and spend your day popping between the heated hydro pool, hammam centre, plunge pool, Himalayan salt sauna and outdoor treatment area. Hello, bliss.
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Four Moons Spa

Encinitas, California
Four Moons Spa brings all your favorite spa destinations and rituals conveniently to one Encinitas location. Host a pow wow with your bachelorette party gang and experience not only a gorgeous, worldly space, but nail, skin, body café and wellness too.
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Tierra Santa Healing House at Faena Hotel

Miami Beach, Florida
Miami’s the kind of party spot that’s at the top of many bachelorette agendas, but how do you keep it a chill affair in a city that’s always in party mode? We may have found the answer. A visit to Tierra Santa Healing House at Faena can easily be an all-day experience that includes massage therapy and bodywork, facials, healing arts, hammam immersion, and a variety of muds, scrubs, oils and homeopathic treatments.
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Cowshed Spa at Soho House Chicago

Chicago, Illinois
Chicago’s SOHO House has one of the best spas in town. You can easily book a group spa session with bubbly, snacks and a couple of treatments for each of your gals. Facials, mani/pedis and back massage are all part of the offering.
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Twin Farms learn more

Experience the great outdoors with your chill bachelorette crew at Vermont’s Twin Farms. Book the Aviary cottage for pure relaxation overlooking the woods, and you’ll be able to warm your bones in the hot tub set just beside a stone fireplace.
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Aman Spa at The Connaught

London, United Kingdom
Take a dip in the black granite swimming pool while your lovely ladies catch their spa treatments at Aman Spa at The Connaught. This London spa offers a globally influenced list of treatments, so there’s sure to be something for every spa personality type in your group.
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