The Reeds at Shelter Haven
EST. 2013
The Reeds at Shelter Haven, 3rd Avenue, Stone Harbor, NJ, USA

The Reeds at Shelter Haven
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Escape to The Reeds at Shelter Haven - where coastal elegance meets effortless luxury on the Jersey Shore.
Offering serene waterfront views, indulgent spa moments, unforgettable seaside dining, and stunning spaces for events.
The Lowdown
Type
BallroomBanquet Hall / Event FacilityBeach / Lake / Waterfront LocationBoutique HotelHotel / Resort / Spa
Views
BayCoastlineLandscaped GroundsStreetWater Feature
Style
Coastal
Elegant
Modern
Nautical
Best type of Celebrations
Adventure Travel
Product Launch
Anniversary
Art Show
Baby Shower
Bachelor / Bachelorette Party
Birthday Party
Brand Activations
Bridal Shower
Charity Event
Conferences
Corporate Event
Dinner Party
Elopement
Engagement Party
Exhibits
Family Reunion
Graduation Party
Group Getaway
Holiday Party
Honeymoon
Networking Events
Pop-up
Rehearsal Dinner / Welcome Reception
Retreats: Corporate, Spa, Wellness, Etc.
Reunion
Social Event
Vow Renewal
Wedding Ceremony
Wedding Reception
Workshops: Creative, Photo, Etc.

Venue Setting

The Reeds at Shelter Haven exudes an inviting blend of coastal sophistication and relaxed luxury, perfectly set along the waterfront of Stone Harbor. Overlooking shimmering bay views and gentle salt marsh breezes, the ambiance is serene yet vibrant - where modern design meets seaside charm. Soft, natural tones, nautical accents, and open, light-filled spaces create an atmosphere that feels both elegant and effortless. Whether you're sipping cocktails on the bayside terrace, celebrating in a chic event space, or retreating to a private balcony at sunset, The Reeds offers a timeless coastal haven designed for connection, celebration, and relaxation.

Capacity

Seated
220
Buffet
220
Standing
220
Fees
(Prices listed here are estimates only & are subject to change)
Price range

Does this include catering fees?

Yes

Estimated price per head

from $95 to $220

Additional charges

22% Service Charge Fee
6.625% Sales Tax Fees
5% Room Occupancy Fees
 

Full venue buyout option

from $25,000 to $250,000

Insurance

Additional Insurance Is Not Required To Host An Event Here

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Event Logistics and Amenities
(Essential event logistics and amenities to ensure a seamless and memorable experience for you gathering)
Celebrations hosted here since
2013
Renovated In
2019
Curfew
10 PM
Venue spaces
Indoor & Outdoor Venue Spaces Available
Catering
Client Must Use The Catering Provided By The Venue
Alcohol
Provided By Venue For Fee – You Must Use The Venue For All Alcohol Services
Corkage/Bottle Fee – You Can Bring Your Own Alcohol For A Fee
Music
Indoors & Outdoors
Smoking
Non-smoking Venue
Accommodations
The Reeds at Shelter Haven is a small boutique hotel with 58 guestrooms. We offer standard guest rooms, Junior Suites, Superior Suites (with kitchens, living spaces, queen pull-out sofas), and larger suites like the Salt Suite and Skye Suite.

Guest rooms include king or queen beds with premium mattresses and frette linens. Bathrooms feature marble-top vanities, make-up mirrors, high-end bath amenities. Suites: for example, Superior Suites include a master bedroom with King mattress, living space with fireplace, dining table, kitchen and a balcony with bay views. Amenities: rooms are equipped with refrigerators, keurig coffee makers, and nice bathroom finishies.

While the standard overnight accommodations focus on guest rooms and suites, The Reeds at Shelter Haven has a dedicated bridal/party dressing suite called The Ready Room, which is designed for wedding partiers for primping and photography. 
Eco/Green Events
Yes
Kid Friendly Events
Yes
Handicap Accessible
Yes
Amenities
  • A/V Equipment
  • Bridal Suite/Changing Rooms Onsite
  • Street Parking
  • Valet Parking
  • Wifi
  • Dining Chairs
Venue Features
Standout venue features:
Waterside Location with Dual Beach and Bay Access:
- The hotel sits right on the bay in downtown Stone Harbor, offering sweeping views of the Basin and easy access to the beach - you're just two blocks from the Ocean.
- We offer complimentary bay-water activities (kayaks, paddleboards) for guests to use on the Shelter Haven Basin.
- For beachgoers: We offer beach butler service - gem-cart transportation, set-up of chairs, umbrellas, and towels.

Full Service Luxury Spa Experience:
- Our Salt Spa offers not just massages and facials, but exotic features like a Turkish Bath, Brine Lounge, Soft-Pack Float Therapy and Light Therapy.
Extra perks:
The Reeds at Shelter Haven offers indoor/outdoor event spaces with exceptional design. Our venue package includes: tables, chairs, linens, glassware, barware, flatware, and so much more. Onsite coordination team with your own coordinator helping you plan your upcoming executive meeting, birthday party, family celebration, wedding and so much more. Customizable catering & event menu support through our coordination team.
Awards & Notables
Awards, recognitions, or noteworthy achievements associated with the venue.
Voted 2021 & 2022 Number 1 World’s Best Resort Hotel in the Mid-Atlantic by Travel+Leisure, and one of Condé Nast Traveler “World’s Best Hotels” for the eighth year in a row and New Jersey’s Best Hotel in 2024.
Food Restaurants, Cafes, Bars, Lounges
This section provides insights into our diverse culinary and social offerings.
SAX Seafood & Steaks has been newly reimagined with a bold focus on premium seafood, prime steaks, and impeccable service. Enjoy coursed dining, shareable bites, and an intimate ambiance — expect big flavors, unforgettable plates, and an experience worth savoring.

Water Star Grille The upscale, yet casual Water Star Grille has become the place to be seen at the Shore. The hottest gathering place for bayfront breakfast, lunch, dinner, and drinks, the Water Star Grille provides residents and vacationers alike a memorable dining experience in stylish surroundings.

Café Cubos beckons with a tempting selection of sinfully delicious grab-and-go delights, ranging from coffees potent enough to revive the sleepiest souls to handcrafted pastries and mexican-inspired lunch fare. Whether you’re kickstarting your morning with a flawless iced latté or stocking up for a day at the beach, we are your go-to destination for everything you need to bring you back to life.

Buckets Margarita Bar & Cantina Buckets is a fun, off-the-wall taqueria style restaurant for casual dining. A tricked-out indoor seating area with graffiti wall art, deck dining over the bay, indoor/outdoor belly-up bars, and punchy, Mexican-inspired furnishings make Buckets the cool place to hang all summer long.

Stone Harbor Pizza Pub Slices of Stone Harbor Pizza pair best with a Shelter Haven sunset. Pull up a seat for a slice, a brew, and a panoramic bayfront view. Offering 12 draft beers on tap plus a full bar, pair the perfect cocktail with your pies, fries, and other pub fare.
Water Star Grille: Located directly on the bay – the view is spectacular, and the vibe is relaxing yet lively, plush yet comfortable. It’s a place to kick back with your favorite cocktail, share your favorite dish with family, and catch a breathtaking sunset. The Water Star Grille offers first-come, first-served seating.

SAX Lounge: Known for our Saxtini which is a handcrafter pinapple-infused vodka martini.

Stone Harbor Pizza Pub: Offering 12 draft beers on tap plus a full bar.

Buckets Margarita Bar & Catina: Margarita Mondays, struggling with a case of the Mondays? We say when life hands you limes - add tequila and make it a Margarita Monday!

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